after you have written a config file /etc/xen/abcd.cfg you have to create the instance by
xm create abcd.cfg
(It suprised me, that the suffix .cfg is neccessary)
xm console <Domain>
to disconnect type ctrl-] (which means to press Str-AltGr-9 on a german keyboard)
xm destroy <Domain>
this will not(!) destroy your data or config, it will just “poweroff” the running virtual machine without a clean shutdown. (don't know what happens to snapshots)